Hello folks,
today I have a question and I hope that some of you may have an answer for me.
Ok,...obviously I´m a female and as everybody knows women have some days in the month in which we really don´t want sex or some other suff....we have a bad mood and everything or everybody drives us crazy....we simple are a bundle of nerves :(
So there is no sex....no spanking....Nothing!!!!! Just for some days but that´s even enough...I think you know what I mean, don´t you?
For you guys that´s a hard time as I can imagine, isn´t it?
Nervertheless, after this "special-days", our "bed-activities" are much better...:)
BUT...and here is my QUESTION:
Do men also have such "special-days"...maybe because of stress at work ...

Yep, that's right, I'm on vacation and I'm sick.
I don't think I ever fully got over the cold or whatever it was that I had during physical. Then there was the travelling on Wednesday, and yesterday we went out and definitely overexerted ourselves. We are at a high altitude here, and what did we do yesterday -- hiked up a hill to see a historical cemetery and then went on a cave tour where we had to climb up over 100 steps to get out of the cave. Lots and lots of labored breathing. I live basically at sea-level so this has been tough. The labored breathing pulled muscles in my back.
Oh, and to top it off, I've hardly slept. I cannot get comfortable enough to sleep through the night, and when I woke up too early this morning I couldn't get ...

Once again, it's been too long. It seems like I'm able to dodge and weave to get out of spankings more often that I used to, but when they do come, they are that much worse. Anne recently "tanned" my ass in a way that went way beyond turning my buns a pleasing shade of crimson. It's been almost a week, and I still have a very large black and purple swath where one my cheeks meets the upper thigh.
Work continues to be very stressful, and I have been bringing that stress home. Last Friday, I brought it and myself home a little late, after spending a little too much time commiserating with work friends about the lousy state of the economy, job insecurity, etc. I came home more than a little worse for wear.
Anne was not amused. Not at ...

As the absolute queen of lurkers - I read everything but don’t want to offend any one so I smile, enjoy, finish reading and move along. It’s not at all a wish to obviate or hide my constant presence. I respect the collegial community the spanking community has established. Maybe someday [...]

Today is the third annual Love Our Lurkers day! In observance of this blogger holiday, I am posting to express my gratitude to all of you who read my blog.
Bonnie, at My Bottom Smarts wrote:
While we may not see your face or read your words, we know you're out there. Even in silence, your return visits provide a gentle affirmation.
I'd like to second this sentiment. While perhaps sometimes I am more of a lurker myself than a blogger, it helps me to know that others are out there listening. To those who feel comfortable commenting and take the time to do so, I am grateful. To those who don't, I am also grateful.
I didn't actually "come out" in the online community until around January 2007. I was a lurker online since ...

I am very sorry for not updating in so long. All I can say is that I have been in the midst of an arduous battle with depression lately over my back and the problems that are still not resolved after a painful and extremely expensive surgery. I'm also spending a month away from Roger, visiting my family abroad, which means I have very little to report.
But I truly appreciate the e-mails and the concern. I know I took on a responsibility when I started this blog, and I feel like I owe you all updates even when I can't drag myself out of bed. The guilt over everything I'm neglecting these days leads to inertia, which leads to more guilt, etc., etc. Sometimes it feels like an uphill battle just to breathe.
As you can imagine, I've taken an ...

frank b asked this;
He would "love to know what things a lady likes to see and hear from the man she spanks. Is there an attitude or position you find more erotic. Do you prefer the spankee to take the punishment silently or do you prefer the moans and cries. Is there a position you find more interesting. In short how do we men make it more tempting."
I'll start with my answer to his question...
What do you like to see and hear?
For some reason I really like for my naughty man to protest the spanking as much as he can and to be horrified at the prospect of having to go over my lap like a child and have his pants pulled down and his bare bottom exposed. The more he verbalizes how humiliating he finds it and how unacceptable that ...

I must apologize to all the readers of my blog. The reports of my demise are just not true.
My Yahoo group is having a party next weekend, I spent seven glorious days with the love of my life, my fibromyalgia decided it was time to pay a ghastly visit, and good grief before I knew it I hadn't written a blog in forever. To say nothing of the fact that I have not been visiting the other blogs I enjoy so much. So if anyone needs a spanking it is me. I am reasonably sure that can be taken care of next weekend!
Once again I will be going to a spanking party that I am in charge of organizing. It is a great pleasure, after Iall I am a teacher and throwing parties is something we can do as well as teaching reading. Many new members ...

I wrote this for my Livejournal late last night, intending to come up with something more polished this morning. But in the end, I think it was a good post as originally written, so I'm just copying it here.
The tears surprised me. I had been trying so hard all day, not to hope, to prepare myself for going to bed tonight, disappointed, not yet knowing who would win the election, having the outcome precarious.
And then, as I was counting up the tally on the Google election map, they announced it on TV. Obama won. McCain conceded. And I noticed there were tears in my eyes.
I voted for Obama because I believe he will best represent my interests. I voted based on the merits. Intellectually, race didn't matter to me. Obama was the better ...

Hey guys,
Ok ok. I've been gone for some time... Actually I am working on two stories and neither are coming alive too fast. :) Sorry about that.
However, I have this little treat for you, thanks to someone called MovieSpank. :)

Enjoy!